Experts in Marriage, Family and Individual Counseling in Schaumburg Illinois

The Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center is not only the first emotional wellness center founded in the Midwest, but has been providing expertise marriage, family and individual counseling in Schaumburg, Illinois for thousands of clients for over 15 years

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Serving the Chicagoland area for over 15 years

Although located in Schaumburg, Illinois, The Lighthouse originally opened its doors in Arlington Heights in 2002, and has been providing marriage, family and individual counseling services for clientele from suburbs such as Palatine, Barrington, Inverness, Hoffman Estates, Elk Grove Village, Buffalo Grove, Wheeling, Rolling Meadows, as far south as Naperville, as far west as Rockford, as far north as Gurnee, and as far east as downtown Chicago.

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Our Marriage and Family Counseling programs are conducted in a unique way to insure success

Most major insurance plans accepted such as, Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Aetna, Humana, Cigna, Tricare and Medicare.           We now also conduct teletherapy sessions!

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Counseling for Children, Adolescents and Adults

The Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center is the first professional counseling center of its kind, founded in the Midwest over 15 years ago and dedicated to the growth and development of healthy relationships

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Marriage Counseling

Marriage Counseling

Our successful marriage counseling program is not offered anywhere else in the Chicagoland area. Click here to learn more…

Family Counseling

Family Counseling

Learn more about our unique and powerful Family Counseling program and start the healing in your family today! We know families, because we are one!

Individual Counseling

Individual Counseling

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Our Staff Who are expertise marriage family individual counseling in Schaumburg Illinois

Couples Counseling Schaumburg IL

Like a lot of things that can help our relationships, couples counseling has a habit of sounding appallingly unromantic. Yet, it doesn't have to be glamorous as long as it works! For couples counseling in Schaumburg IL, contact Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center. We can help save your marriage before it's too late!

What if I Don't Want to Go to Couples Counseling?

Couples counseling usually involves embarrassing conversations, grueling work, and tremendous patience about matters it would be much easier to simply ignore and never talk about again. We live in a culture that teaches us to follow our hearts and be ruled by our feelings. However, couples counseling knows that this is normally a recipe for disaster.

Our feelings, for the most part, are errant and coded with responses from a troubled past. Instead, couples counseling encourages a far wiser response. We must make decisions with our minds, not our hearts.

Why Go to Couples Counseling?

Standing well back from our first impulses, neutralizing them through our understanding, and where possible, rerooting them in a less self-punishing and more trusting direction can change our entire outlook on our relationship and our problems. Living alongside someone else is obviously one of the hardest things we will ever do, and many fail at it!

It really is natural for us to get living with another adult wrong. There's no shame in needing help and training to succeed at it. That's what Lighthouse Emotional Wellness Center is here for! We provide couples counseling in Schaumburg IL for couples whose relationships are on the rocks.

What are the Benefits of Couples Therapy?

There are a number of inviting things that we might learn in couples therapy. To begin with, we get the chance to air out our concerns in a quiet place and explain what we think the problems of our troubled relationship are without degenerating into shouting, sulking, or cynical avoidance. We are often far-too upset with our partners to be able to share with them in a way they'd understand what we're so angry and upset about.

It helps to be in front of a stranger we're both a little intimidated by and whom we have to behave ourselves with. It's highly unusual to be able to put things so starkly but also so reasonably. For example, "The fact that you never touch me and move so limply and unenthusiastically when I touch you is slowly killing me, and although I love you, I don't know how much longer I can take it!" How much better this sort of thing than a decade of low-level sniping and repressed fury!

Will Couples Counseling Save My Marriage?

Also, couples counselors are skilled at teasing out from us why what bothers us bothers us. Typically, on our own, we won't unpack the emotional meaning behind what we do and think. We will quarrel about where we'd like to go on the weekend instead of talking about what going out or staying in represents for us internally. As a result, the other merely finds us stubborn and mean, and all that's interesting and poignant in our position is lost.

Couples Counseling Schaumburg IL

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